I was just going to suggest HK. Mainlanders are not into inviting people into their homes. Will take ages before that happens.
The way they “Dine” here is more like extend version of fast food. In at 6pm and out at 7pm.
Well a proper dining experience would go hand in hand with a decent conversation, and just asking things about stock exchange and /or how many houses someone has is not going to do it.