Not sure to follow your question here Georgie.
You got an offer to move to China/Asia? You dont want to leave the family in the US, good! You seem to be Westernized by now (so common Chinese men leave their family somewhere and enjoy a life of whoring in another city).
So are you asking us whether China is liveable with a family? Most of us have families here, doing well, it isnt more difficult than anywhere else – in fact much easier with ayis etc.